Let's talk about how to flirt with a girl. Flirting doesn't have to be very hard, and it's actually pretty fun once you get the hang of it.
Before we get into this, though, I wand to make something clear. When you flirt, it should be fun. If you're too uptight about it or if you come across like some kind of pervert, then that's not fun for anyone. This just straight up won't get you anywhere.
Let's start learning how to flirt with girls. Flirting may seem like a challenge if you're not used to it, but it's really fun with a little practice.
In fact let me say something before we delve into this. Flirting should be enjoyable. Don't take it too seriously, and don't just shout out creepy comments to women because that's not fun. That's just a waste of time that won't get you any results.
At it's heart, flirting will do two things. First, it lets her know that you interest in her. And flirting should leave the woman feeling uplifted by the interaction.
This is how you should flirt with a girl:
Now the first part is to express to her that you are interested in her. This is important because it will discretely let her know that you see her as more than a friend. And I think the best way to let her know that you are interested in her is to tell her that she's sexy. Not cute. Not hot. Just sexy!
You can just come out of the blue though and tell her that she's sexy. If you do this you'll be just the same as all the annoying guys that she just rolls her eyes at. This is where the second part of flirting becomes critical.
Flirting should be a positive experience for the girl. You have to talk to a girl first to gauge her mood before you try to flirt with her or else you run the risk of hitting a nerve. She has to put at least a small amount of herself out there. Get her to share with you how she feels about something. Then use that as material to flirt with the woman.
Here is an example of how you want to flirt. If she tells you that she's majoring in French, then have her say something unique in French. Then say something like, "Okay, you can't talk to me in French anymore. It's too sexy and I can't handle it."
Did you catch that? I told her she was sexy and complimented her on something unique about her all at once.
Now she could keep this going and flirt back. If it's her style she could try speaking in French for the rest of the evening just to see what would happen to me. It is that easy.
Another way to get even faster results is to use pushing and pulling. You starting by saying something that appears like you are pushing her away. Then you turn it around by complimenting her. This is a perfect way to keep her guessing and make you look like a fun and interesting guy.
Now let's have a better look at that last example.
"Okay , you can t talk to me in French anymore." -- This is the initial push. It comes across like I'm rejecting her.
"It s too sexy and I can t handle it." -- This part is the following pull. You just have to change an insult into a good thing.
This is the secret to flirting with a woman. This is actually really easy once you've done it a few times and it seems natural. The advantages of learning this is going to be more than worth it for you. So get out there and meet some girls.